Human Needs: Happiness or Security
Maybe every human want to live a peaceful and secure life. Alright then. Would you please tell me what brings in happiness and peace in a person’s life? Human want to live with their loved ones in non-violent fashion, which can be either secure or insecure. Can we really live peacefully when our life is secure? Why a peaceful life become so violent when we a path of insecurity become visible in our life? Let’s assume that your life is secure and you are living in a nice house with your wonderful family. One day something unusual happens and suddenly your attitude towards something get changed. Perhaps you are perfectly happy with your family, but that little problem which is no way related to your family life-lets think the newly arise problem is in your work pace.
We people seems to relate everything with the people or things that we experience. In the case of a person who is facing serious occupational difficulties-whatever is the reason- he will, in most cases, try to bring those issues in his personal life and will create instability to his very own beloved family? And what if that person’s family members get intolerant to him-hell will break lose upon him. Ultimately, that person will create such an unpleasant situation in his family life that he will eventually try to find a way out from his once loved ones.
So, we see that peace in a person’s life is dependable on a number of factors that are most important to that person, though there can be exception to that. Professionally,you may encounter people who are not bothered at all what is happening around him or to him. Nonetheless, the majority of the people want to see all things happening around him peacefully. As a person we all are selfish in one way or another-which has several different implications. For example, a person needs to care of him or herself in order to stay fit and alive to continue life, which is the most basic needs to function as a human. To keep that instinct intact and unchanged you create all kind of nuisance that eventually hamper the peaceful and loving environments of your house. So, the pick of the paragraph is that you have to stay away from spreading your dissatisfaction and unhappiness among others.
Think about peace as a state of mind. Have you ever asked your mind that why there is so much peace in someone’s life while the others are spending tons of dollars ,in mediation or in something like that, only find a bit peace of mind, which is actually is in right there in their very own mind!! Some people always find peace because they always think that they are in peace no matter how much typhoon or earthquake is happening around their social and physical life. Peace is not a real stuff- you cannot touch it. Nobody in their life time has ever measure the amount of peace they have. Peace is a conditional state of mind that you believe in-that is all you need to know. Both peace and stress have something common in them: they are both just a state of mind. Some people think that they are secure because they feel it inside their heart. Every emotion you feel or perceive is inside you, nowhere else on earth- and the good thing about it is that you can take that emotion out within a fraction of a second. Most of the time you yourself get clouded by the mist of your mind which prevents you from realizing what life is about. Only you can realize anything, not your mind. So, what a human needs mostly depend on how you perceive your life. What you have to remember is the mind is just a mindless robot which tells you to believe in something. But the truth is you cannot live a life without believing in anything. Can you? Yes, you can: just believe in yourself and listen to yourself.